LEXINGTON, Ky. (August 13, 2026) — From the first time Lindsey Mullis saw a photo of her daughter, Caroline, she knew it was meant to be.
After meeting a family who had adopted two children from China, Mullis began exploring international adoption. Drawing on her previous experience working with individuals with disabilities, Mullis specifically asked to be matched with a child with medical needs. When the agency sent Caroline’s photo, the decision came quickly.

“If I had the ability, the capacity and the heart to do that for another child, why wouldn’t I?” Mullis said. “I remember asking other adoptive parents whether loving an adopted child felt different than loving a biological child. One mom told me the process is different, but the first moment you see your child, that instant love and connection, is exactly the same.”
Adopting Caroline from Ürümqi, China, Mullis instantly felt that connection through photographs. When Caroline arrived in Lexington in December 2016, she said that mother-daughter bond was confirmed.
The adoption journey also brought unexpected twists. While completing the adoption process, Mullis became pregnant. She gave birth just weeks before Caroline came home, becoming a mother of two young daughters in less than a month.
Another part of Caroline’s story was her Down syndrome diagnosis, something Mullis approached with both curiosity and openness.
“You can read about a diagnosis, but every individual is unique. If you’ve met one child with Down syndrome, you’ve met one child with Down syndrome,” Mullis said. “We had to be comfortable with meeting Caroline and letting her show us who she was, while being ready to support her unique needs.”
As a new mom to two young children, Mullis quickly learned one of the greatest lessons she now carries into her work with adoptive families: don’t be afraid to ask for help.
“Looking back, I think the world was teaching me that it’s okay to ask for help,” Mullis said. “Having a village, a network of people who understand, is incredibly important.”
Now, nearly 10 years later, Mullis is drawing on those experiences in her role as program coordinator for the University of Kentucky College of Social Work’s Adoption Support for Kentucky (ASK).
Founded on evidence-based practices and the lived experiences of adoptive families, ASK operates from a fundamental understanding: adoption isn’t the conclusion of a story, it’s the beginning of a lifelong journey that requires ongoing support, connection and understanding.
One of the aspects that attracted Mullis to the position was the opportunity to connect families with ASK’s free support groups, trainings and other resources while helping them build relationships with others who understand the adoption journey firsthand.
“It’s important that we continue updating and improving what we offer so that ASK truly meets families’ needs,” Mullis said. “I want to continue growing the program by identifying what adoptive families are asking for and making sure we’re filling those needs.”
Through both her journey as an adoptive mother and her work with ASK, Mullis is continually reminded of the importance of community.
“Every adoption story is different, but there are so many shared experiences,” Mullis said. “Surround yourself with other adoptive families who have lived the experience and don’t be afraid to lean on them.”
Today, Mullis hopes every family who connects with ASK finds that same sense of community. By connecting adoptive families with trusted resources, meaningful relationships and ongoing support, she hopes to help ensure they never have to navigate the adoption journey alone.
For more information and to sign up for an ASK Support Group or Training, please visit the Training Resource Center website. Lindsey and Caroline also share more of their story on Youtube, please visit these videos to learn more: Caroline’s Story & My Sister Caroline.